Who isn't interested in love and romance? And even more importantly the question can be posed regarding how science can investigate a topic that is so dominated by emotions and feelings?
What follows is a sampling of several opinions provided by a range of individuals who expres their beliefs on whether love at first sight can truly happen.
Sometimes it takes a minute
by April
I had the love at first sight, needless to say, after he left me for another girl, I found out that he had covered a lot of ground around town (had many girls). Thank god he didn't leave me with any parting gifts. I met the guy that I am falling in love the right way--slowly getting to know him and finding compatibility. I have been fighting it because I was so heartbroken (just broke up with the love at first sight guy 6 months ago), and this guy has found me worth the patience to nurse me through a broken heart, be persistent enough to wait for me to start falling for him. Maybe he felt love at first sight when he first saw me. Because I believed in the love at first sight thing so strongly, that if you are meant to be you'll feel it, and with this guy I didn't feel that, but it is developing into a very deep love, far less shallow than the first sight stuff. I still question it or whether I'll run into the love at first sight stuff, and that will steal me away from this guy. I am so confused about what love is.
Ran into him, literally
by Anonymous
I wouldn't have believed in love at first sight except I've experienced it myself. I literally ran into a man on my way out of a building while walking and talking to a girl friend of mine. I said I was sorry to him and kept walking with her. Then suddenly had this really funny feeling and I turned around and he was standing on the steps of right where I ran into him and was looking at me. I turned around and walked back to him. I've never done anything like that in my life. We spent the rest of the night having fun together and have now been friends for eight years. He's a military man so we've loved each other from a far... but we both fell instantly in love.
oh wow yes it does
by angela
i walked into a restaurant looked up and there he was walking out i thought he was a waiter and asked for an ash tray to which he answered no .The room just stopped and i felt really freaked out.I have had many encounters with men and dates been married but nothing has EVER hit me with such a bolt in my entire life i cannot explain it.I bumped into this man four more times until he asked me out.I completely know in my heart that i will marry him it is without doubt and absolute.I know how ridiculous this sounds and really cannot reason it out to myself never mind to anyone else. It is the weirdest thing i have ever experienced .I will spend my life with him i just know , i might add that i am probably the most cynical person i know and i was not looking nor expecting what has happened , we are in early stages and anything could go wrong but i just know i will marry him .SCARY
its real
by Anonymous
its real I have experienced it
you've got to keep the faith. never give up on what you are willing for
by Anonymous
i'm from argentina, but although you are all from the US, what i felt when i read most of the commentaries is incredible. i met a guy about 5 years ago, and since that moment we started chatting and could not spend a day without knowing anything of the other. all of my friends told me since that moment that either one or the other was feeling something, but i never thought that could be true. about 2.5 years he became dating a girl. at the very beginning she knew the feeling his boyfriend (my boy) felt for me, and although she did not liked it, she needed to accept it. i visited him several times, and in one occassion we kissed! the worst of all is that he told his girlfriend and since that moment everything went to downfall. at first he could managed to talked to me, but in all of the suddens, he told me he believed that girl was forever and so, he needed to let me go, and beg me to forget him. you can't imagine how much i cried. evertime snce i hear any song we both sang or any love song, i cry. i hope i can see him again and everything turns find again. or, if she was supposed to be for him, i beg God to let me forgive him. although i'll never stop loving him (he bought a place in my heart) "what you dont let go is going to pass you by" best wishes for all from argentina!(L)
Great minds think alike...?
by Anonymous
I have now been in a relationship with a person for some time, but I knew him for a while before that. I had always felt, right from when I first met him, that he "understood" me, and I felt that he thought like me, which I had never felt with anyone before. I thought of myself as being good friends with him (what I didn't realise was that he also had some romantic interest in me!). He asked me out eventually, and about a month into dating him, I found out he had Asperger's Syndrome. Nearly a year after that, a few weeks ago, I found out that I also had it. He had known I did right from when he first met me, but assumed I already knew and didn't mention it. I like to think our feelings of mutual understanding are more than just a neurological pattern that we have in common, but there are people who wouldn't see it that way. But either way, I'm in love, and I don't care why!
love at first sight
by saidy
i believe their is love at first sight. i think i saw mine. he had glasses and when he took it off i looked at his eyes then suddenly it felt like the world froze. then i suddenly realize i was in my classroom. right when he put his glasses back on i felt weird. after class i didnt even remember his face without glasses. i was in 7th grade. in 8th grade i had him in computer class. he had contacts on and when i stared at him the world would stop again. then i would look away not remembering his face then the next day he had his glasses back. i heard his contacts riped.
More than physical attraction
by Ant
Those who say its only strong physical attraction (which I have also experienced) have never experienced it. Its far beyond that. For me, she walked in the room and I knew I could marry her. It was like finding a missing piece of yourself, and my heart rejoiced. The pure shock of the moment felt like a punch in the gut. She felt the same way. We started dating that day. We both felt as if we were already married. When issues prevented it, I can't describe the pain.
Yes, but you may have to experience it to believe it
by T
After love at first sight, of course work is required to keep the relationship strong - that's just common sense. But my parents, who experienced the same thing, have told me that the memory of that initial feeling has always served as a reminder of their love for each other during difficult times.
A state of mind
by Anonymous
Sure, I believe in love at first sight. It generally lasts as long as the people will it to last, as long as they still believe in being in love. But I also believe that LONG-LASTING love is a full-time job. Here's my experience on this matter: 6 years ago, I met a man who I instantly fell in love with. We had an amazing connection, as though we were sharing the same mind. It sounds ridiculous, but it's absolutely true. We dated for several years, even lived together - but it wasn't meant to be. He stopped believing in us (he has some deep seated emotional/commitment issues, come to find out). We're still friends, and I still love him, but no longer in any romantic way. 3 years ago, I met the man who I am now engaged to. I didn't love him at first. I wasn't physically attracted to him, etc. But, our relationship grew out of this wonderful comfort that we feel together and it has (with daily work) grown into a healthy and strong relationship. I know it will work because I believe in US, which is a powerful factor. So.. with work, patience and unconditional love any relationship can last - even if it wasn't love at first sight. And conversely, a relationship that begins with love at first sight isn't always destined to work out. It takes the same amount of work as any other relationship..
Only in Hindsight
by Ron Gentile
There are times we meet people when we feel a great connection right away. In some cases as we learn more about them this connection grows and grows, and if asked to reflect we'd say that it was "love at first sight." In other cases as we learn more about one another we find that we're not that compatible after all. If asked to reflect we'd say that we got off to a good start, but that it didn't work out. In short you can only know what you know give the available information. You have to spend more time together to find out if all the ingredients for a long-lasting lover are there. I'm actually writing a book about this called "The Four Factors: How to Measure the Goodness of a Romantic Relationship." You can read more about it at http://thefourfactors.blogspot.com. I'd love your input. Thanks, Ron
Yes
by Ovid
57+ years ago we met and I knew. We just celebrated our 56th anniversary. So, the answer for me was and is yes, and very much so. For today's generation it probably happens less often. This is sad because hooking up may be great fun but it is not love at first sight.
Unless you experience it, you can only wonder about it
by Anonymous
The instant I met my husband I knew, with no doubt, that we would be joined together the rest of our lives. 19 years later we are still together and I expect not to be separated from him until one of us passes over. There is no good words to explain the feeling. There was a very real physical feeling of being taken aback as well as some mental confusion of what had just happened. I don't know if I would call it love at first sight, there was no lust involved, but it was as a door being opened and I could see the future without any doubt.
Archetypal Partner
by Elmas
Jung had it right ... We are looking for the 'ideal' the archetypal partner . Sometimes we experience 'love at first sight' from afar , but when we get to know the person the initial excitement dissipates... for they are themselves and not the "ideal" in our minds ... Rings a bell ? Anyone had a similar experience to share ?
Yes it does happen
by Aly
I saw my love at a grocery store in the parking lot almost 11 years ago. It was like the world stopped. Like I had known him forever. He said "hows it going sweetie?" and I was so dumbstruck all I could do was mumble a weak "fine" and walk past reeling. I wish with all my heart I had been able to talk to him. I doubt I will ever love someone that much again. And no, Im not impulsive. I generally reason out all my relationships, and they are generally not overwhelmingly passionate on my end. This person evoked a response in me I didnt know I was capable of, and have never felt since. I will never forget him, and I always hope that one day I will see him again.
tell you my story in 5oo words?
by smiling eyes
got to be kidding, man walks by and touches my arm, looks me in the eye and asks to marry me. answer with "I would, if I wasn't already". only one of many who. . . while the one married, my eyes gravitated to his hands . . he didn't stand a chance, near 50 years ago, there's always some, the catch of any eye, the touch of a hand, the words which catch. Love? is a soulattitude towards life . . be charmingly disarming and leave each gent feeling good about his self.
physically, yes - emotionally, I don't think so
by Anonymous
About a year and a half ago I saw her for the first time. She is, physically, the ideal embodiment of what I consider to be beautiful. Just looking at her would cause a huge surge of adrenaline to rush through me. As a terribly shy person, I did not tell anyone how I felt for more than a year. When I did tell a friend about it, he engineered an encounter between us. I have now spoken a total of two words to this person. So, no I don't think I was in love with her, because surely you have to know someone to love them. It's a moot point because we subsequently found out she was engaged to someone else anyway.
Love at first sight reunited...
by Bud
Yes. After 20 years, I was reunited with an old classmate through MySpace. I flew across the country to visit with her. We had been in communication daily since that first e-mail saying "Did you know..." When I came down the stairs at JFK and saw her, something inside of me just clicked. Since for the past few months she and I had been talking nonstop, we knew everything about each other. She lit up and we were inseparable that week. Two months later, she moved to Phoenix. Less than a year later, we were married. Today, we celebrate our son's first birthday and we are still going strong.
Attraction at First Sight
by Bilmar
Will is absolutely correct that without that "attraction" at first sight there is no hope or desire to explore developing into a very loving relationship. For me it was her smile. I was so strongly attracted I wanted to learn more. As I did it became a strong relationship. Looking back, I can see how people believe it was "love at first site" when it turns out so wonderfully.
You don't find love - you grow love.
by Anonymous
Love is cultivated and earned over time, after sharing life with each other and bonding closer and closer. After five years of marriage, I can say that I love my wife much more than I ever thought I could before... More than on our wedding day, and certainly more than at first sight.
Yep, it happens
by Anonymous
First time I saw her I was like "that is the most attractive woman I have ever seen." That was Fall 1990. I still think this today.
Mesmerized immediately
by Anonymous
He was in a class in college. I couldn't get him out of my mind. We would only stare at each other, but never talk. Finally after 2 years we came face to face only to express this connection we felt. We shared one night. Ten years later in touch again and our hearts feel like they are about to explode. I do believe something exists. I can't pinpoint it. It is like we were supposed to be together, something drew us together. I have had many boyfriends,long term, and even a husband. But what I feel for him, I will never be able to explain. I can still see him walking into class 12 years ago.
It happened to me
by Tiphareth
I had never thought much about love at first sight until it happened to me. It was 30 years ago. A friend and I were at a night club and three young men our age walked in. My eyes were immediately drawn to one of them, becuase he seemed to have an "aura" about him. Moments later this young man was standing in front of me and our eyes met and I can't even describe the feelings I had. Everyone else in the room "disappeared" to me. We talked all night and I felt that this must be what heaven feels like. The "aura" I'd seen around him now surrounded the two of us. I felt like we'd known each other all our lives, and that we had so much to say to each other it would take a lifetime together to say it. But it wasn't meant to be. We lived hundreds of miles apart, and circumstances weren't in our favor. I cried the next day when I realized I would probably never see him again. It was an experience that had a deep effect on me.
His eyes told me
by Lucile
I couldn't see my love until he sat down beside me. I was nearsighted. It was not lust but a feeling of such comfort, bliss, all knowing at the time and I knew he would be my husband. Married now for sixty six years and still have that fatal attraction. What a life to love someone so deeply and so much for all those years.
Hormonal, chemical, electrical and psycho-social creatures...
by Bruce
We cannot view human beings solely by their isolated attributes... it is the combination and interplay between all of these attributes that ignites the spark we call love. That being said, a flame lit, will still go out unless nurtured. There are phases and degrees of attraction and love and they directly correspond to pheromones, vasopressin, oxytocin, phenylethylamine and ultimately to the mind-body integration of these elements and our childhood imprinting.
Love at first sight? Absolutely.
by Anonymous
1st marriage was based on knowing him very well, learning to fall in love, But the love wasnt strong enough to with stand all obsticales it ended in divorce. thinking I would never fall in Love again I see my 2nd husband for the first time with a feeling till this day I cannot explain, we married 1 month after knowing each other the same feeling I felt that very first day, is still the same feeling that keeps growing everyday even after 13 years of marriage. (love)
Love is an action that speaks louder than the feelings, it's also user defined.
by James
From what I have seen in my 45 years, most relationships that survive the test of time are by those who are emotionally healthy, confident and have realistic expectations. jfahnestock@qualityreplacement.com
love @ first sight
by chris
I've experienced a level of both.I think that there is some chemical in these individuals that when sensed by the 'right' person causes a release of copious amounts of dopamine and stabilizes seretonin.It is an oddity I have tried to understand. Those persons and myself often get along like a plugged in toaster oven and a bathtub of saltwater, there's electricity and chemistry but someones going to get fried.
I saw it once and it was amazing.
by Anonymous
Just as mentioned in an earlier posting, it's as if time ceases and a lifetime is lived in one perfect moment. It is beautiful and can completely take one by surprise. And the most difficult part is getting over that rare connection, when timing was off. But yes, I believe in love at first site.
tone of voice elicits trust
by Anonymous
A voice that's part of a general emanation of a personality that guarantees the person is trustworthy, never a liar--that voice invites love.
Lust: Yes! Love: no!
by Anonymous
I'd say there is absolutely Lust at first sight.. meaning you are simply but wildly attracted to someone the first time you see them. Maybe its the eyes, the hair, the shape .. its just that right combination that matches your mental ideal. Love at first sight.. no. Love is much more complicated and basically means you'd give everything you ever had for that person. That in my opinion takes time to develop and validate.
It does exist but is not always meant to be...
by Anonymous
Love at first sight exists. It is more than physical attraction; there is something unknown that brings two people together in an instance. Time ceases and a lifetime is lived in one perfect moment. I felt it, so did she, and we dated briefly until fate intervened. She gave her failing marriage a second chance. Though we were not together, we still felt it and it never faded. I got married, she divorced, and to this day we still love each other, but fate continues to separate us.
Lust at First Sight
by BanjoGirl
Anyone that thinks they are in love at first sight makes all of their romantic decisions based on physical attraction. They are the same folks that choose the wrong person and get divorced. Some of the important characteristics of a partner come out of the woodwork over time: how affectionate are they, do they need a lot of attention, are they honest.
Worked for me too
by Andrew
I met my wife just over 8 years ago - We've only been married for the last 1.5, but I knew at the time that she was the one for me. I didn't tell her immediately for fear of freaking her out - and incidently, she wasn't in love with me from word go. It took her about 3 months for her to agree that she loved me, and as with the other post before, we've been going strong ever since, with no end in sight
Not lust only...
by Bill
There was a question once asked on the Newly Wed Game, the first two I can't remember exactly. But it pertained to how the man (I think) fell in love with his wife. The third answer given for the wife was 'head over heals'. A friend and I were talking about this question the next day wherein I mentioned that with me, it was always 'head over heals'. This was not a lust problem on my part, but because of of yet maturing emotionally.
No Better than Astrology
by Wired News
People make tons of false assumptions when they first set their eyes on someone. Although you may feel strongly attracted to someone instantly, there is no solid reasoning behind those feelings. The idea of love at first sight is no more scientific than astrology.
Worked for me.
by Jen
Love at first sight might not be real, but it certainly worked for me. Immediate attraction followed by marriage and two kids. We've been married for almost 8 years now and are still going strong. So we may not have been in love at first sight, but it still only took a week which is close enough in my book.
It's About Knowing What You Like When You See It + Being Friendly
by Will
It's people knowing what they like when they see it, + the capacity to be struck by it.
BUT: It's a Movie they see, not a Photo. Ex: Body Language, facial expression, posture, voice, clothes, grooming, physicalized thought, interpersonal rapport, neg vs. pos "vibes".
I feel women are better at this.
The best relationships I've had were with girls who were good matches + demonstrated an Immediate (and many times instinctual/automatic) Positive Reaction. ymmv.
Some People Calculate their Love
by Wired Science
While some of us can fall in love at first sight, others are very methodical, almost robotic, about choosing who to love. For them, it is a careful decision, not a feeling.
it's real
by Anonymous
I met my man one night when I was not looking for anything at all, I turned to my left and there he was. Within 3 weeks, I knew without a doubt and realized i had known before that, that I was going to marry this guy...he is simply the most beautiful man i've ever met, inside and out. It sounds stupid but I have no doubt and neither does he. Two cynical people who believed we would never again be in love met each other and found out we were so wrong...it's amazing.
Eyes that were mirrors
by Anonymous
Ever since I first saw him, i could not help noticing him, for it was like the young, aqueous sunlight of spring had been cast upon the fridgid January days that I spent watchig him, and he was the mirror that captured and shone with that radiant light. However his eyes did not meet mine, for he was away in a world that I know all to well. Then, months later I heard the most beautiful music and followed it to its source, an it was him playing a song he must have tolen from my own mind. I knew him befoe I spoke to him and loved him before I saw him. I now know that what I loved in him at that first sighting was some bizare otherworldly recognition, for I now know that he and I must share a mind--we are so much alike that it never ceases to unnerve me. Now we are both in love, and each day I hope that love is not as fleeting as that first, unreciprocated glance I had at him. There are no others like us but each other. Our fears,our interests our strangenesses, our psycological intricacies, and even our favorite books and activities are virtually identical. True love proves itself each day. this will not fail, it cannot simply die. I have found the one person who I have been waiting for. Love at first sight does exist.
gotta have attraction then u get reaction
by Me
well i remember the day i saw him it was like woah i felt as if it took my whole life i had to know this person i had to marry them no matter what to this day i cant get him out of my head
I didn't until it happened to me...
by Anonymous
Two years ago I walked into a pub with a friend of mine. There he was ... playing in a band I had never heard of. It was as if I knew him, although we had never met. When the band took a break, he walked by me and we made eye contact. I smiled at him and he smiled back and we talked at every break. I honestly think we knew each other in a past life. He feels the same way. We are soul mates and nothing ... not even death ... will sperate us! If it does, we will find each other again.
It does exist
by Anonymous
It does exist, it's just that it doesn't always happen at the most opportune times. I believe I feel in love-at-first-sight recently. I'd known him for about an hour and barely spoke to him, I know nothing about him, but that I think he must be perfect! I was just so drawn to him, everything was in-tune between us, our eyes and I could feel both of us wanting to know more about the other. Later on, we both inquired about the other, (through a mutual friend) though I'm not sure anything will come of it - I am married to someone else, though it is a rather unfulfilling marriage that I don't believe will last much longer, (it has only been 1.5 year). My true love ;) happens to work, on occasion near my place of business, so it is totally possible for us to meet again when it's a better time, (if things do not work out with my husband). I will let you all know if I am right about this guy, that one day we will be together!
I hope she reads it someday!!!And she would know it was me who wrote it..
by Anonymous
A girl came to me giggling!!When i asked her why??? she said , that she did not know why she was giggling, she thought , it must be the coffee..I asked her if there was something wrong about the way i was looking..she said no...and then I was giggling too..And then i told her it is contagious!!I saw her beautiful eyes, and her smile.I don't know what I am feeling, but I never felt this way before..
I hope she reads it someday!!!And she would know it was me who wrote it...I know she would never forget it!!
what the hell is love at first shight
by seleste
I HAVE KNOW IDEA
Physical attraction
by Karl
Love at first sight - it's so easy isn't it. All you have to do is look around, and hey presto, there's the person with whom you will spend the rest of your life!
Well, yes, it can happen that way, but for most of us love at first sight is just a dream - a way to cut out all the anguish, the waiting and the wondering, the pain of rejection and the uncertainty of love's reciprocation. But at its heart, the concept of 'love at first sight' is deeply flawed.
First of all it assumes that the test of real love is based only on physical attraction; that you have a picture in your mind's eye of the perfect man or woman - of his muscular shoulders or her long slim legs. But the chances are that these pictures - particularly facial characteristics - are more than likely to be built upon celebrity images or parental looks - friends or relatives from our past that we came to respect. In truth, those who seek love at first sight are prisoners of one-dimentional relationships that take no account of that crucial ingredient in any successful partnership - personality.
Secondly we all have to recognise that the desire to reproduce - sex - can briefly overwhelm our common sense - a state in which we fall victim to the moment without regard to our long term prosperity - and that such moments are often based on little more than physical attraction. This is not to downgrade physical appearance - far from it - but to emphasize that how we look carries dangers that can obscure what we value most - our souls.
Apart from anything else the clothes we wear are so often driven by fashion that individuality is subsumed to peer pressure in a way that stifles personal expression. Clothes can provide vital clues as to the innate characteristics of the wearer, but all too often they are worn to flatter little more than our physical attributes.
You may get lucky with love at first sight, but beware the consequences.
Yeah and it's amazing
by Anonymous
i've found love at first sight on the 3rd day of track practice last year in 9th grade. it felt like someone threw a football at the back of my head, which made me trip on the ground. when i looked up he was the only guy i saw, and it felt like it was only us two out of the other 100 people on track. this guy isnt "gorgeous" or i love him because of his looks. he actually looks normal, not too ugly and not too hot. in my eyes hes perfect in every way. every day since last year i strongly loved this guy who i didnt know his name or anything. eventually i heard someone shout his name Dallas. when track ended and we didnt see eacother, oh god i fell apart and cried everyday. 10 months seemed very slow and i was worried if he was joing track again.
thank god last week track started again and he was there. we both love eachother but never talked or anything. i feel a bond.
what's love got to do with it?
by chuck
I fall in love every time I see a woman, as long as they are attractive, because every one knows, we men are visual creatures.....
What about the blind?
by Anonymous
Have any of you who claim to have experienced 'love at first sight' had said experience with a person who isn't beautiful, traditionally or otherwise? Would two fat, sagging, hideous excuses for human beings who are 'meant to be together' have the same initial reaction to one another as two gorgeous types? Probably not, unless they were blind, in which case they'd have to rely on their other 4 senses . . . love at first sniff, perhaps.
matt
by Anonymous
is just okay
Only love is real
by Anonymous
I believe that love is everywhere, it's not something that occurs only between a man and a woman, but something that grasps the essence of life, of anything. That essence is the driving force behind, music, poetry, art and religion; a presence that can't be explained, studied or put into words. Yes I believe in love at first site. Love is not measured in time, though a bond between two people can grow in time.
again and again
by Howard
Tiphareth: wrote of an encounter that mirrors many I have had... the magic, love if you will, the exploration and infatuation. The difference is that I have little trouble letting go.... I meet someone and our interaction sucks the oxygen out of the air and everybody around us disappears for a time.... hours usually. We part and I don't take contact information... and I don't offer it. We seldom touch other than perhaps a brief brushing of hands together, and we both know that those few hours are all the time we have to share our lives, to know each other, and to treasure.... and to enrich each other's lives. She may be single, she may be married... I don't give a hoot... it's not about sex or about mating, it's about something else entirely. It is love at first sight, and it could be allowed and encouraged to develop, but it also is a tiny jewel, a treasure to carry on into the future, knowing that you have connected with someone in a deep passionate way...... the fantasy is far better than the reality in most cases, and I am usually satisfied with that...... Compressing love into a brief moment in time.
For some, maybe it's the only way they know...
by Anon
My intuition said yes... My experience can't say no... My heart says "Love Always, Anon"...
Love at first sight?
by Anonymous
Love at first sight... I only believe it, because I think I have witnessed it. Is love at first sight what happens when you see a complete stranger, not know a single thing about them, their name or anything, and not taking into concideration ow they look, think, act, or feel, and yet, wanting them more then anything?
Think about this
by Anonymous
This is a question based on experiences so it cant be answered. also everyone's definition of love is different so again it cant be answered.
Of course I believe in this!
by kostyazen
Of course I believe in Love at first sight! You just need less fear in your life for it to happen all the time. Also you can replace fear with love, like in "Living on love - The Messenger" book by Klaus Joehle. http://k.livingonlove.com
happily married
by Christy
My husband and I have been married 22 years and we were married 1 month after we met. Definitely love at first sight!
Love at First Sight is Very Real
by Wired News
If love at first sight is a myth, then why are there so many songs and stories about it?
Pff
by SJ
Love at first sight? Only if you follow the most basic of all human instincts and cannot use your brain on your own, but let it use you. Its simple attraction and if you see the person often it is just layering attraction. Isn't there a saying that there is a difference between Love and Romance? Love means "I want you", its desire, not Care. When you Care about someone it is completely different, you don't want to see them hurt at all. Not just "oh I want/love you".
It's primitive
by blakely
Have you seen a real person of the opposite sex within stone's throw and thought that he/she #1: was hot? and #2: that you could picture yourself at least dating, if not in a relationship with said stranger? Sometimes it turns out to be love, most of the time it's just primeval lust. If two baboons had to go on at least 3 pleasant dates to get their emotions in check before doing the deed, what shape would their species be in now?
u decide!!
by khushiiiiiii
i think love at first sight really dont works..when u look at some person how can u knw about his charactersitics, thinking,idealogies unless u know dat person since before..love at first sight for me is just an infatuation w/c people feels love..yeah it may working sometime but i may call it a matter of mere coincidence or astrology..love is not physical appearance..its a inner beauty..so for me being in love is sth w/c really needs time and patience..
Love at first sight a myth? DUH
by Anonymous
Being in love is great.However, it takes a certain amount of time to build the relationship to well... LOVE. Love at first sight is quite impossible, people may think they're in love but in actual fact, it's what you call infatuation or a crush.
Love At First Site
by LB
Of course I believe in this. I believe because your destiny is your destiny. If I am destined to be with someone, then technically, when I first "see" them, somewhere inside of me, there is already a seed for love. I "met" my husband, my soulmate online. A few messaged conversations later, it felt as if I had loved him forever, because essentially, I had!
Hard to tell.
by Tina Marshall
I've never been in a relationship as a result of "love at first sight", but I would love to believe that it does exist. I've heard several success stories, so I'm still holding out for it to happen to me. My eyes are wide open:) I actually just read a post today on Peterman's Eye about love at first sight. Thought I'd share!
http://www.petermanseye.com/anthologies/what-was-learned/368-love-at-first-sight
Cheers!
laura
by Anonymous
is a tennis loserface with no life
dude
by Anonymous
looks like a lady.
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